Monday, November 8, 2021

Oh, Yeah, Kids These Days - weekly column 11.7.2021

 

Lawrence Hall, HSG

Mhall46184@aol.com

 

Oh, Yeah, Kids These Days

 

We can be reasonably sure that in 1939 parents in Canada and England and the rest of the Empire and the Dominions dismissed their teenaged children as lazy good-for-nothings without values or ambition. Kids these days, eh?

 

Similarly, we can be reasonably sure that in 1941 American parents wrote off their young’uns with much the same words. Kids these days, eh?

 

And that’s okay; those who survived the war dismissed their own children as idlers and slackers (which in my case was accurate). Kids these days, eh?

 

Last week a couple of sixteen-year-olds in Iowa were arrested for murdering a middle-aged woman, and the reactions on the InterGossip were both immediate and predictable, variations on the old “kids these days, eh?”

 

First of all, the thoughtful citizen will bear in mind the wisdom and logic in the Constitution – the two boys have been arrested, but an arrest is only a formal accusation, not a conviction. By the Grace of God, the InterGossip is not God, nor is it a court; it is mostly a bunch of grouchy old people yammering.

 

And second, even if these two boys committed the murder, they define nothing but their own errant behavior. They definitely do not define a generation because, Tom Brokaw notwithstanding, a generation cannot be defined. It can be stereotyped, but not defined.  As Margaret More asks in A Man for All Seasons, “What’s the man?” And we can add, “What’s the woman?”

 

Let us consider thirteen young Americans who are far more representative of the rising generation, thirteen young Americans who were killed last summer while serving humanity in helping refugees escape from Taliban-controlled Afghanistan.

 

We have all seen the photograph of Marine Corps Sergeant Nicole Gee cradling an infant amid the chaos at the airport in Kabul when everything fell apart.  The picture is not a government propaganda photograph; if it were it would be of better quality. This is just a snapshot one of her fellow Marines forwarded to her.  She sent it by email to her parents with the words, “I love my job!”

 

“I love my job.”

 

Those may have been the last words this United States Marine - with her hair tied back in a ponytail - said to her mom and dad.

 

She was only 23. Some of her fellow Marines were only 20. Kids these days, eh?

 

They might have been on the same bus route with our kids.

 

On the 26th of August Sergeant Gee and the others who were killed with her almost surely did not think of themselves as great Americans; they were too busy BEING great Americans. They would have thought of themselves as only doing their jobs in the heat and dust and violence of Afghanistan, helping civilians escape being murdered by the Taliban.

 

That’s what almost all young people would do. No one should dismiss any generation with cheap and shabby stereotypes. Your teenager and the goofy kid next door and the pimply oaf who can’t get your hamburger order right would risk their lives – and someday may well have to do so - to carry a baby amid the screams and terror and dust and heat to safety and then return to the perimeter for another child or young mother or old man or anyone who needed their help.

 

That’s what these thirteen young people did.

 

The oldest by far was Marine Corps Staff Sgt. Darin T. Hoover, 31, of Salt Lake City, Utah.  31 might seem old, but, yeah, he was young.

 

Marine Corps Sgt. Johanny Rosariopichardo, another woman Marine, 25, of Lawrence, Massachusetts

 

Marine Corps Sgt. Nicole L. Gee, 23, of Sacramento, California

 

Marine Corps Cpl. Hunter Lopez, 22, of Indio, California

 

Marine Corps Cpl. Daegan W. Page, 23, of Omaha, Nebraska

 

Marine Corps Cpl. Humberto A. Sanchez, 22, of Logansport, Indiana

 

Marine Corps Lance Cpl. David L. Espinoza, 20, of Rio Bravo, Texas

 

Marine Corps Lance Cpl. Jared M. Schmitz, 20, of St. Charles, Missouri

 

Marine Corps Lance Cpl. Rylee J. McCollum, 20, of Jackson, Wyoming

 

Marine Corps Lance Cpl. Dylan R. Merola, 20, of Rancho Cucamonga, California

 

Marine Corps Lance Cpl. Kareem M. Nikoui, 20, of Norco, California

 

Navy Hospitalman Maxton W. Soviak, 22, of Berlin Heights, Ohio

 

Army Staff Sgt. Ryan C. Knauss, 23, of Corryton, Tennessee.

 

Now there is a generation. They were killed in a scene of horror by a mad bomber who chose hate instead of love. His hate killed those 13 young Americans and wounded some 30 others who were saving lives, and killed and wounded possibly 200 or more Afghans.

 

One unhappy young man chose hate.  That poor (wretch) doesn’t define (poop).

 

But our young people chose love, the love Jesus spoke of when he said, “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”

 

And these young Americans gave up their lives for people they didn’t even know.

 

No greater love indeed.

 

We have spoken of these 13, but let us remember this: every young American in Kabul that day was saving lives – they were helping terrified people get to the airplanes, helping them to safety.

 

That is also the story of just about every American soldier, sailor, airman, Marine, or Coast Guard who ever served.

 

We absurd old people were once young – maybe when dinosaurs roamed the earth – and we know that every veteran and almost every American at some time has given up some of his own poor rations to help feed children, given up some of his time and sleep and effort in helping those who are hungry or displaced.

 

But that’s every generation’s story, to serve humanity. The exceptions are irrelevant. Dang it, we’re good, and we don’t allow idiots to define us.

 

In some way, in some place, in some time – as a soldier, a police officer, a volunteer firefighter, a paramedic, or as a good American civilian who stands tall when needed and helps the community in some way, all of us serve humanity. We may not be called to carry a child to safety from Kabul Airport or from a wrecked car or from a burning building, but we will surely be called to help feed children or teach children in Sunday School or kick in a little something for the Kirbyville Christian Outreach food pantry or help out with the elementary school’s reading program.

 

There’s an old Army National Guard recruiting slogan that says:

 

It wasn’t always easy

It wasn’t always fair

But when freedom called we answered

We were there

 

That’s who you are, and that’s who the kids are. Don’t dismiss them. Don't stereotype them. Don't underestimate them.

 

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